He and I have been frociates for YEARS. We were catching up recently and he told me about how a woman baked him cookies. This was the first time a woman had ever done something like this for him. He's damned near 40.
For years I have watched his dating life. I've watched him choose women who would be nothing more than a burden and never an asset. But I didn't think he was unhappy. After all, he was choosing those women or being receptive to their advances. Just because those aren't situations I'd want to be in, doesn't mean he was unhappy in them. Ya know?